Spread your arms wide
Open your heart to the sky
Turn your face to the sun and
Say yes to the present moment
Say yes to today
Say yes to this week
Say yes to new opportunities
Say yes to the unknown
Say yes to prosperity
Say yes to abundance
Say yes to love
Say yes to joy
Say yes to being your badass self
You are a Divine creature of God
You are love and light
You are all that you’ve been seeking for
You are magnificent
Say yes to yourself
Say yes to life
I was first introduced to swinging chair pose by one of my Kundalini teachers, Karen. She is known for using this pose in her classes as a warm-up before the kriya. I love it because it combines movement, breath and imagery- I’m a visual person and I greatly enjoy the visual components of Kundalini yoga, especially in relation to the Law of Attraction.
In this pose you are saying yes to all of the wonderful and amazing things that you want to bring forth and attract into four life, while simultaneously getting rid of the garbage and gunk that is no longer serving you, perhaps even weighing you down.
Start standing with your feet hip width distance apart, arms resting by the sides of the body.
Close your eyes and begin to bring your awareness into your body. Come into your body.
Feel where your feet meet the earth beneath you.
Notice your breath as it moves in and out of your body.
Now I invite you to think of something in your life that is no longer serving you- maybe it’s a thought, a behavior or a pattern, maybe it’s a past event that happened or a heavy feeling or emotion you’ve been carrying around that you’re ready to get rid of. It can be more than one thing but try to find at least one thing you’re willing to get rid of. Note, you don’t have to be ready, just willing. You can also set the intention here to release all things known and unknown that are standing in the way of your desires and/ or preventing you from living your optimal life.
Once you have that which you wish to release. Take a moment to call forth that which you wish to call in. What are you ready to invite into your life? Abundancy, prosperity, love, a romantic partner, courage, patience, money, joy, freedom, travel…. etc, etc, etc.
Now you are ready to begin.
As you exhale, bend your knees so that your hips come in line with your knees. It is as though you are sitting in an imaginary chair. And simultaneously sweep your arms down and back so that your fingertips point behind you. Visualize that which you are releasing and letting go of.
Inhale, legs straighten as you come into standing and arms simultaneously sweep up, biceps by the ears, slight backbend and opening of the heart as you say “Yes” to all that you are inviting in and calling forth into your life. I invite you to call our the things you’re invite in, for example “Yes to abundance” “Yes to love” “Yes to financial freedom” and so on. In doing so you are placing your order with the Universe. You are clearly stating, “Yes, I want this. Bring this to me. I am ready.”
Do this exercise for 1-3 minutes.
Finish on the inhale, reaching up towards the sky, opening up the heart. Hold the inhale, close the eyes and then as you exhale slowly lower your hands down by the sides of your body. And feel the energy within and around you. Feel the energy you created in your body and your energetic field. Pause and rest here for a minute before softly fluttering your eyes to open.
You can do this exercise every morning as a part of your morning routine or anytime you are feeling low, down, need an energy or mood boost.
Each day when you awaken, in a fraction of a moment, the course of your day is set for you. There is brief moment in time that determines how the rest of your day will unfold for you. This small, yet profound, instant takes place before your eyes flutter open to meet the light of the day. You are awake in this moment, but are you aware?
As your eyes open and you begin to move about your day, the mind has already opened its floodgates to the thoughts. One-by-one the stream of thoughts rush in. Are you aware that you have anywhere between 12,000 to 60,000 thoughts per day? Assuming that you sleep eight hours per night and you are awake 16 hours of the day, on the low end that is 750 thoughts per hour and 3,750 on the high end.
Thoughts move in and out in a steady stream throughout our waking hours as you simultaneously move about your day; most thoughts going unnoticed, background noise at most. You might think that isn’t true for you, that you are aware of all of your thoughts. But the reality is that you are conscious of about only 5% of your thoughts. That means that the unconscious mind is running you on its auto-pilot mode, 95% of the time.
And while you are running around on auto-pilot mode, 95% of your thoughts are exactly the same as the day before. Ever feel like Bill Murray in Groundhog’s Day? Do your days stream together without much differentiation between one to the next? That is because your thoughts are the same, you are basically reliving the day prior.
And if all of this isn’t enough to wake you up to your thinking mind; 80% of your thoughts are negative. You are essentially living in the past of your negative experiences.
But this can change. You have the power to change your thoughts. To wake-up and break the cycles that are keeping you stuck.
There is a split moment between the awakening and the opening of the floodgates, a teeny, tiny moment before the thoughts begin to rush in. And it is in this moment that we have the power to set the course of our day.
Here are two simple things that you can do to experience more positive in your day:
1. At night, before you go to sleep, set the intention to have a great day the following day. Say to yourself “tomorrow will be a great day”. Use this phrase or choose another phrase that resonates with you.
2. When you awaken, before you open your eyes, before any thoughts stream in, as quickly as you can remember, consciously say to yourself “today is a great day”, or any other positive phrase that resonates with you. Then get up and begin your day.
That’s it. It really is that easy. But it is a practice and you are working to reprogram deeply engrained patterns. Be patient and gentle with yourself as it may take some time to get in flow with it. These two simple, yet profound, steps hold the power to change the course of your day by breaking the negative auto-pilot thought loops and creating new positive ones. Continue this practice daily and begin to observe the changes in your life; at first they may seem subtle and then profound.
*Pro Tip- I like to leave note cards next to my bed to serve as a nightly reminder and morning reminder.
The side effects of anxiety can often be debilitating. Leaving its victims feeling restless and exhausted, consumed by fearful thoughts. I remember days where I was so consumed by anxiety that I would lay in bed, paralyzed, unable to move, as the mind ran rampant. I wanted so badly to shake it off, to get up and go live my life, but I didn’t know how to do that. I felt stuck. Worse even; I felt like I was stuck in quick sand and quickly sinking, yet without the energy to even attempt to climb out.
I tried to open up to friends about my situation, which only left me feeling ashamed and alone, thus keeping me in the anxiety loop. No one seemed to understand what I was experiencing and the more I tried to connect with others, the more alone and disconnected I felt. My anxiety turned into depression. I began to self-medicate. I turned to cigarettes and booze to soothe my angst, but these only served as a temporary, and false, reprieve.
I looked to the Internet for help- Dear Google, please save me. But I became frustrated with the results that were returned to me. Take five deep breaths, one article recommended. Think more positive thoughts, suggested another. Go for a walk, said one. While I agree that these are all wonderful tools to have in your toolkit, I did not find these to be practical and effective tools to manage my anxiety when in a full-blown state.
Over the course of my recovery I did find practical and effective tools to manage my anxiety, both in the moment and preventative. Below are 5 powerful and effective tools that I hope you will be able to add to your toolkit as well.
1. Yoga Nidra- A guided meditation for deep relaxation. Simply find a recording you enjoy, lie down and listen. Yup, it’s really that easy. And the healing effects are powerful. On the days that I was paralyzed by anxiety I would lie in my bed and turn on a recording of Yoga Nidra. Afterwards, I found that I was able to get up and go about my day with a greater sense of ease, calmness and focus. Over time my worries effortlessly melted away, little by little.
*I now have a few of my own recordings available online and create custom recordings for people to target specific needs.
2. Exhaust your nervous system. Go for a long run, up a steep hill, three times over, better yet five times over. Run until your little legs can run no more. Run until your heart feels like it is going to thump right out of your chest. Run until you are too exhausted to have any thoughts left, other than the thought about how exhausted you are. I love going for walks, and often I’ll allow myself a nice long walk to think things out, but when anxiety is high I need to get out of my head and into my body. The best way to do this is to physically exhaust your body. This will also help you to sleep better if anxiety is causing you sleep disturbances as well.
3. Ashwagandha. An all-natural remedy for anxiety and depression. An easy and effective way to improve your health and quality of life. I personally use the powder form and drink it at night before sleep. It has an earthy taste to it, which I don’t mind, but you may consider mixing it with warm milk or an alternative.
* I am not a medical professional and I am only offering information based on my own experiences.
4. Essential Oils. Get them. Use them. There are many that are helpful for anxiety but the two that I have found to be the most beneficial are lavender and vetiver. I use them mixed together at night in a diffuser next to my bed and I also rub them on the soles of my feet before bed, mixed with a carrier oil. There are a few reasons to use oils on the soles of the feet; studies show that the pores of the feet are particularly absorbent and quickly absorb the essential oil into the bloodstream and our feet ground us to the earth element, helpful when feeling anxious, spacy and ungrounded. You can also use vetiver during the day as well if you feel you need more grounding. * A note of caution- a little goes a long way with vetiver.
5. Acknowledge the anxiety. More often than not we resist anxiety. We’ve been taught that it’s one of those bad, icky feelings. So when it comes on rearing its ugly face in ours, we, for lack of better words, freak out. No, no, no. Go away. I don’t want you here today. And you’ve heard the saying, what you resist persists? Well it’s true with anxiety. The more you resist it, the longer it sticks around. Acknowledge it. In a primal state, anxiety is there to protect us. Sit with it. Invite it in for tea. Ask what message it might have for you. Feelings just want to be heard and acknowledged, and often times that can be enough for it to then go on its merry way. Sometimes all I have to do is say “hello anxiety, I see you there” and that is enough for it to continue on its way past. And when it’s not, I turn to the other four tools above.
If you are experiencing anxiety, know that you are not alone in your journey and that relief, as well as healing, are available to you. The most important thing I have found in recovering from and managing anxiety is sleep. Take care in getting good sleep and the rest will fall into place and/or fall away. When our sleep patterns are disrupted it affects all areas of our life and keeps us stuck in the anxiety loop.
Spring is upon us and it is a powerful time to cleanse the waste of our past and make room for our hearts desires to take root; to celebrate and embrace new beginnings. We are emerging from darkness (winter) and moving toward the light (longer days). We are awakening from our deep slumber, our hibernation and preparing ourselves for longer days filled with playfulness, vitality and joy.
Here are six ways that YOU can harness the energy of this potent season.
1. Spring Cleaning: Get organized
Begin with your home, your sanctuary. Where you can make space, organize or declutter? Is there a particular room in your house that could use a little organizing or maybe a whole new makeover? Go through your closets- if you haven't worn it or used it in three years toss it into a donation bag and give it to a local charity or host a clothing swap gathering with friends. Do the same with your kitchen cupboards- what can you eliminate, where can you make space? If you don't know the name or function of the item, toss it in the donation box. When your sanctuary is clean and organized you'll feel lighter and more at ease.
*Warning: this can be addicting. If you find yourself organizing and cleaning your entire house, invite your significant other, children and/or housemates to join in the fun- you can sing and dance or make a game out of it.
2. System Reboot: Cleanse
A great way to transition from one season to the next is with a cleanse or detox: a reboot for your system. Find a cleanse or detox that is practical for you- one that fits your needs and lifestyle. A 7-day juice cleanse is not for everyone, nor is eating raw; don't let these discourage you, they are not the only options. Have some fun with this- do your research and maybe even create your own mini detox or cleanse, perhaps invite a loved one or friend to join you- this provides accountability and motivation.
3. Seasonal Grinds: Healthy Eating Habits and Routines
Now is a good time to check-in with your eating habits and routines. Where can you improve? What can you eliminate from your diet and what can you add?
When eating for the season, find locally grown produce that is available in your area. Not sure where to start- check-out this website. Get creative and make a new dish using only seasonal produce.
4. New Beginnings: Start a New Routine
A good place to begin is to look back at your New Year's resolutions/ goals. Is there routine on your list that you meant to start but haven't, or maybe you did start and then lost momentum. If so, that's okay, if it's still something you wish to have in your life, make adjustments and start again.
Some other ideas might include; daily meditation, exercise, waking up earlier or going to sleep earlier.
5. Start a New Project or Hobby
Is there something you've been wanting to do, perhaps a home improvement project, or maybe take a cooking or photography class? Do it now! With longer days, we have more daylight hours to take advantage of. Harness the energy of the sun to fuel your desires and start movin and groovin.
Organize a gathering with family and friends. Invite everyone over and show off your clean and organized home. Wow your guest with your scrumptious seasonal grinds and share the blessings of the season with those you cherish most.
How I found a morning routine to be helpful in managing my anxiety and depression.
There was a period in my life where waking up in the morning was a real struggle. The dawn of the day marked the remembrance of my troubles and worries. Before my eyes fluttered to open, my mind was flooded with a surge of negative thoughts, my heart became heavy as it sank into my chest and worry drenched every cell in my body. I wanted to pull the covers up over my head and drift back into the unconsciousness of my being- where my worries and troubles did not exist.
My aversion of mornings put me in a salty mood, which unavoidably followed me around all day. I needed something to snap me out of my morning funk- something stronger than coffee. Thus, the creation of My Magical Morning.
Below are four things that I started doing every morning which transformed my relationship with mornings from dreadful to divine.
1. “Today is Magical”
Say this phrase 5 times, with feeling, before you get out of bed.
I found that the first thing I was saying to myself in the morning, before my little eyes even fluttered open to the morning light, was “Oh cr*p, it’s morning again. Another day of this sh*t.” This was literally how I started each day and this phrase is what set the tone for my day. I was, unknowingly, sabotaging my day before it even began. So I set a little note with my alarm, a reminder, that said “Today is Magical” with some stars and hearts emojis (the unicorn had not yet debuted). From that day on, each morning, when my alarm would wake me up, I was kindly reminded that Today is Magical.
*Other options might be- Today is the best day of my life. I love my life. My life is fabulous and fruitful….. You get the idea.
Start with 5 minutes and work your way up as you see fit. There are many different forms of meditation and apps available to support your journey; sit in silence, follow your breath, visualize yourself being filled with love, or chant mantras, play around and find one that best serves you.
I like to tack this step onto my meditation since I’m already sitting with eyes closed, and typically feeling relaxed and receptive. I spend about 5 minutes visualizing, in as much detail and with as much feeling as possible, having all of my hearts desires; frequently creating a big ol’ smile across my face.
You’ve likely heard about affirmations and the claims made about their benefits. I was once a skeptic myself and I avoided them like vampires avoid daylight. But the relentless buggers kept following me around; hiding out in books, making surprise guest appearances in movies and blurting themselves out in conversations. Eventually, I surrendered to their persistence and now I am an avid believer in powerful magic of affirmations. Write them out as though every word you are writing is the truth, and in time, it will be your truth.
I took great delight in experimenting with various activities and fine-tuning the details to create the perfect morning routine for my needs. I encourage you to do the same- have fun with this, play around with different options and fine-tune until you find a Magical Morning Routine that fits your lifestyle and meets your needs.
I didn’t always dread mornings; there was another time in my life when I was having a magical love affair with them. I would wake up in the dark hours of the early morning to watch the sunrise over the ocean. I would sit quietly, in solitude, grateful for the stillness of the early morning; with sand between my toes as the gentle sea breeze would softly kiss my cheeks. Mornings and I, we had a real romance going on- it was the real deal kinda love. But when the seas of life got rough, and I was relentlessly tossed around as waves crashed over me, sometimes pulling me under, I found it difficult to catch my breath, hard to stay afloat. My Magical Morning Routine became my personal flotation device and through maintaining a daily routine I have become more buoyant and resilient when facing rough seas.
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